ඔයාව දැක්ක ගමන් කෙල්ලෙක් ආකර්ෂණය කරගන්න මෙන්න රහස් ක්‍රම 5ක්

Thdj oelal .uka fl,af,la wdl¾IKh lr.kak fukak ryia l%u 5la

wdorh lsÍug jhiafíohla kEfka ta;a b;ska wdorh lrkak ys;la fydhd.kak;a  ´k tal iuyrúg álla wudrefjkak mqÆjka b;ska Thdg wo b|ka wÆ;a úfYaIdx.hla f.akjd wdorh yd iïnkaOj wo uq,skau n,uq Tfí ysf;a bkak l=udßldjf.a fk; .efgkak mqÆjka fjkak bkak úÈh

1 weÿïj, j¾Kh
2 fldKavh
3 bßhõ
4 weÿïj, .e,mSu
5 im;a;=

1 tx.,ka;fha lrk ,o iólaIKhlg wkqj, 60]lg;a jvd ldka;djka mjid ;sfnkafka, weÿï me<÷ïj, wms<sfj, ksid ;uka Tjqkag leu;s ke;s njh ;j;a iqúfYaIs fohla jkafka ldka;djka ks,a fyda frdai I¾Ü we|ka isák wh flfrys wvq wdl¾IKhla we;s njhs  tu iólaIKhg wkqj 36]la fokd oïmdg, 13]la fokd iqÿmeye;s I¾Ü we|ka isá whg leu;s nj fy,sù ;sfí

2 wYS,dpdr, wm‍%ikak fldKav fudia;r iys; msßñka yg 17]lafokd wlue;s nj mjid ;sfí È. fldKavhla jqjo fldg jqjo, fyd¢ka th ms<sfj,g we;akï, fc,a wdÈh fhdod ilid we;akï jeä ldka;d wdl¾IKhla ,nd.;yels njo ta jd¾:dfjka mejfia

3 fl,ska iDcqj isg.ekSfuka ;uka Wi nj ú;rla fkfjhs fmfkkafka Ohio State Univeßity iólaIKhlg wkqj, ;ud isák ksjerÈ bßhõ ksid ;udg ;ud ms<sn|j we;s wd;au úYajdiho msg whg, úfYaIfhka ldka;djkag fmfkk nj fidhdf.k ;sfí

4 ldka;djka msßñ md¾Ijfha jeäfhkau wjOdkh fhduq lrkafka l,siu fj; nj uhdñ úYaj úoHd,h mjikjd tfukau thska jeäu msßila fvksï w¢k wh fj; úfYaI wjOdkhla fhduqlrk njo Tjqka mjikjd slacks j¾.fha l,siï fj; 35lao, khakis fj;g 24]lao, shorts fyj;a fldg l,siï fj; 5]l wvq m‍%;sY;hla ,eîuo fndfydafokd mqÿu jQjla tajf.au Thdg fyd| bÛshla

5 fifrmamq wdÈhg jvd, ldka;djka leu;s im;a;= odf.k bkak msßñ whg lsh,d by; f;dr;=re .;a; by; ariel poll iólaIKfhÈu lshkjd

fï f;dr;=re ál jeo.;a fõú lsh,d ys;kjd Thdf. wdorh Èkd.kak fmdä yß úÈhlg

කාන්තාවන්ගේ හා පිරිමින්ගේ ලිංගික ආශාවන් නැතිව යන්නෙ මෙම වයස් සිමාවන් වලදී

ldka;djkaf.a yd msßñkaf.a ,sx.sl wdYdjka ke;sj hkafk fuu jhia isudjka j,§

jhig hkúg ldka;djkaf.a iy msßñkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh flfia mj;So@ fï iïnkaOj fndfyda fokd úúO u; or;s' tys§ we;eïyq mjikafka ldka;djkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh iy ye.Sï" oekSï jhig hkúg b;d bla‌ukska wvq jk njh' kuq;a msßñkaf.a tfia fkdjk nj mji;s' tneúka fujr wms úhm;a jkúg ldka;djkaf.a iy msßñkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh flfia úh yels oehs úuid n,uq'

jhia‌ .;ùu;a iu. ldka;djkaf.a iy msßñkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh hï m%udKhl wvqùula‌ isÿfõ' kuq;a jhia‌.; fndfyda mqoa.,hka ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh fyd¢ka mj;ajd f.k hkq oelsh yelsh' tneúka ,sx.sl;ajhg wod<j jhia‌.;ùu ms<sn| iSud jQ jhia‌ m%udKhla‌ fkdue;'

úhm;a mqoa.,hkaf.a ,sx.sl;ajh ms<sn|j m¾fhaIK isÿlr we;af;a jhi wjqreÿ 55 ka by< mqoa.,hka uQ,sl lrf.kh' tfia ù we;af;a ffjoH úoHd;aulj úhm;a nj ^old age& f,i i,lkq ,nkafka jhi wjqreÿ 65 g jeä ldka;djka iy msßñkah'

jhi;a iu. mqoa.,hl=f.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh wvq jqjo ta yd iudkj ,sx.sl wdYdj wvq fkdfõ' tfiau msßñkag idfmala‍Ij ldka;djkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajfha wvqùula‌ we;s nj fidhdf.k we;' úhm;a ldka;djkaf.a iy msßñkaf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh iïnkaOj isÿ l< m¾fhaIK u.ska fï nj y÷kdf.k we;' tu m¾fhaIKhl m%;sM, my; j.=fõ oela‌fõ'

,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh fndfyda ÿrg ;SrKh jkafka YdÍßl fi!LHh u;h' óg wu;rj Tjqfkdjqkaf.a fm!oa.,sl;ajh" ixia‌lD;sh" iudÔh yd wd.ñl u; yd ms<s.ekSï wkqj tla‌ tla‌ mqoa.,hdf.a ,sx.sl l%shdldß;ajh yd ta iïnkaOj ork wdl,am ;SrKh fõ'

ldka;dj

wm jeks wdishdkq ixia‌lD;shg wkqj ldka;djg mejÍ we;s ld¾hhka fndfyda h' wehg ;u orejka fyda uqKqnqre ñKsìßhkaf.a j.lSï oeÍug isÿ fõ' fujeks iudc mßirhl Ôj;a jk jeäysá ldka;djkaf.a ,sx.sl;ajhg tu j.lSï n,mEï we;s l< yelsh'

úhm;aùu;a iu. ldka;djf.a ,sx.sl wdYdj o wvq fõ' Tjqkg ,sx.sl Woa§mkh ùu i|yd jeä ld,hla‌ .; fõ' tfiau fhdaks ud¾.fha f;;aùu ksis mßÈ isÿ fkdùu ksid ixi¾.h fõokdldß úh yelsh'

fuhg m%Odk fya;=j ù we;af;a wehf.a wd¾;j yrKhhs' tys§ wehf.a isref¾ we;s Bia‌g%cka fydafudak uÜ‌gu wvqfõ'

wd¾;j yrKfhka miq ,sx.sl ixi¾.h fõokdldßùug n,mdk ;j;a fya;=jla‌ jkqfha fhdaks ud¾.h wefok iq¿ nj wvqù heuh' fuf,i fhdaks ud¾.h wefok iq¿ nj wvqù heu ksid th yels,S hhs' ixi¾.fha fkdfhfok ldka;djkaf.a tu ;;a;ajh jvd;a iS>%j isÿfõ'

mqreIhd

ueÈúhg m;ajk úg msßñkaf.a Ysla‍IKh m%dKj;a lr .ekSfï yelshj wvqfõ' ta i|yd Tjqkg Ysla‍IKh ia‌m¾I lsÍu fmrg jvd jeämqr wjYH fõ' tfukau Yql%dKq msgjk fõ.h yd msgjk Yql%dKq ;r, m%udKfha o wvqùula‌ isÿfõ' tfukau tla‌ ,sx.sl l%shdj,shlska miq kej; jrla‌ ,sx.slj Woa§mkh ùug .;jk ld,h o jeäfõ' flfia kuq;a ,sx.sl ;Dma;sfha ie,lsh hq;= wvqùula‌ isÿ fkdfõ'

jhia‌ .;ùu;a iu. fndfyda ldka;djka iy msßñka ,sx.sl ixi¾.hg wu;rj fkdfhl=;a ,sx.sl l%shdldrlï wkq.ukh lr;s'

tys§ ,sx.slj l%shdldß msßñkaf.ka 50] la‌ muK fokd iy ldka;djka 25] la‌ muK fokd ia‌jhx úkaokfha fhfok njg m¾fhaIKj,ska fmkajd § we;'

jhia‌.;ùu iu. ia‌jhx úkaokfha fhfok jeäysáhkaf.a m%udKfha wvqjla‌ isÿ jqjo ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha fhfok msßi ;rï úYd, wvqùula‌ isÿ fkdfõ'

jhi 80 ka muK miq fndfyda jeäysáhka ia‌jhx úkaokfha fhfok nj wkdjrKh ù ;sfí'

úhm;a ùu;a iu. ,sx.sl l%shdldrlïj, il%sh nj yd Woafõ. lr nj wvqù .sh;a úkaokSh njg fyda wfkHdkH ióm;djg ndOdjla‌ fkdfõ' ukaoh;a ,sx.sl yeisÍu hkq ,sx.sl wjhjj,g muKla‌ iSud fkdù bka Tíng hkakls' tu ksid tlsfkld w;r woyia‌ yqjudrefjkao fofokdgu ;Dma;su;a úh yels ,sx.sl l%shdldrlïj, fhÈh yelsh'

,sx.sl .egÆ ms<sno úfYaI{ ffjoH
,ika; u,úf.a

වැරදි ලිංගික හැසිරීම් නිසා ඇතිවන ගොනෝරියා.

jerÈ ,sx.sl yeisÍï ksid we;sjk f.dfkdaßhd''

jerÈ ,sx.sl in|;d fya;=fjka we;sjk fndajk frda.hla f,i zzf.dfkdaßhdzz frda.h y÷kajd Èh yel' nelaàßhd fya;=fjka fuu frda.h we;sfõ' fuu frda.h ldka;djka yd mqreIhka hk fomd¾Yajhgu we;s jk w;r tu fofldgiu oelsh yels frda. ,laIK tlsfklg fjkia fõ'

mqreIhskaf.a oelsh yels frda. ,laIK

uQ;%d kd<fhka iqÿ meye;s Èhrhla .e,Su'
uQ;%d oeú,a,'
uQL ixi¾.fha fh§u ksid W.=f¾ oeú,a, yg .ekSu'
W.=r bÈóu ^l=oafoá we;sùu& fuh;a uqL ixi¾.h ksid isÿfõ'
ldka;djkaf.a oelsh yels frda. ,laIK

uQ;%d ud¾.fhka iqÿ meye Èhrhla .e,Su'
we;eï úg fuh ,d ly meye;s Èhrhla fia Èiaùu'
uQ;%d oeú,a,la we;sùu'
m%odyhka we;sùu'
ldka;d md¾Yajhg we;sjk n,mEu

ldka;d md¾Yajfha fuu frda.h we;sùu ksid fkdfhl=;a wdldrfha oreKq úh yels frda.dndOhkag o uqyqK §ug isÿfõ' tkï fndfyda úgu .¾NdIfha wdidok ;;a;ajhka we;súh yel' .eíf., ;=<ska Y%djhka msg;g meñKsh yel' m%Odk;u .egÆjla f,i ldka;djkaf.a .¾NdIfha" mef,damSh kd< yd äïn fldaI o wdidokh úh yel' óg wu;rj È.ska È.gu mj;sk Worfha fõokdjka oelsh yel' uQ;%d oeú,a,g wu;rj uqLH wdY%s;j ,sx.sl iïnkaO;d meje;aùu ksid W.=f¾ oeú,a,la fyda lik iajNdjhla we;súh yel' ;jo .=o ud¾.fhka ,sx.sl iïnkaO;d meje;ajqjfyd;a tu m%foaYfha leiSug fyda Èhrhla msgùug yelsh'

fuys§ frda. úksYaph b;du;a jeo.;a fõ' fuys§ msgjk Èhrh mÍlaId lr nelaàßhdj y÷kdf.k Bg T!IO ,nd §u b;du;a iqÿiqu l%uhhs' fuys§ we;eïúg zzlekaävdzz hk frda.ho we;súh yel' fujeks wjia:dj,§ tu frda. folgu iß,k wdldrfha T!IO ,ndfokq ,efí'

b;du;a l,d;=rlska f.dfkdaßhd frda.h fya;=fjka ldka;djka j|Ndjhg m;aúh yel' hï fyhlska .¾NKS wjÈfha§ hï ldka;djlg f.dfkdaßhd frda.h je,£ we;akï m%iQ;sfha § th orejdg wdidokh úh yel' túg orejd bm§ ojia follska muK weia r;=ù" Èhr yd ln .e,Sug mgka .kq we;' fujeks wjia:djl§ b;du;a blaukska ffjoH Wmfoia yd m%;sldr .ekSu b;du;a jeo.;a fõ'

we;eï úg§ mef,damSh kd< zzf.dfkdaßhdjzz fya;=fjka wjysr ù ;sìh yel' fuu fya;=j ksid .¾NdIfhka msg; .eí .ekSu Wjo isÿúh yel' tneúka fujeks ixl+,;d we;sùu j<lajd .ekSu i|yd blaukskau m%;sldr i|yd fhduq ùu jeo.;a fõ'

mqreI md¾Yajhg we;sjk n,mEu

mqreIhskag jeä jdr .Kkla uQ;%d msg lsÍug isÿfõ' Bg wu;rj mqreI ,sÕ=j ñßlSfï§ ly meye;s Èhrhla msgúh yel' fujeks wjia:dj,§ mÍlaIK isÿ lsÍu u.ska frda. úksYaph lr.; yels fõ' fuys§ reêr mÍlaIKhla isÿ lsÍu jeo.;a fõ' ukao f.dfkdaßhd jeks fjk;a ,sx.dY%s; frda.hla we;sùu fya;=fjka tÉ'whs'ù ^HIV& taâia frda.h je,£u kj .=Khlska by< hEug we;s iïNdú;djla we;' tneúka tÉ'whs'ù ^HIV& taâia mÍlaIKhla lsÍu b;du;a jeo.;a fõ' ;jo tljr ,sx.dY%s; frda. lsysmhla je,¢h yel'

f.dfkdaßhd frda.h mqreIhskag je,£u ksid mqria:s .%ka:fha wdidok" jDIK fldaI wdidok wd§ frda.hkao we;súh yel' Bg wu;rj jDIK fldaIj, ierj f.ä" jDIK kd<j, wjysr;d fya;=fjka j| Ndjhg Wjo m;aúh yel' ;on, frda. ,laIKhla fmkakqï fkdl<o we;eï wjia:dj,§ fuu frda.h YÍrh ;=<u ;sì fndaùug bv we;'

idudkHfhka fuu frda.h wkdrlaIs; ,sx.sl iïnkaO;d ksid je,f|k nj ieugu fkdryils' tneúka fuf,i wkdrlaIs; ,sx.sl in|;djlg miqj reêr mÍlaIKhla lsÍu iqÿiqu l%uhhs'
m%;sldr

fuu f.dfkdaßhd frda.hg mÍlaIK j,ska miqj m%;sÔjl T!IO ,nd fokq ,efí' we;eï m%;sÔjl T!IOj,g m%;sfrdaOhla olajkjd' tu ksid iqÿiqu m%;sldrh Èh hq;=h' fuys§ b;du;a iqn wdrxÑh jkafka l,a.;ùulska f;drju fuu frda.h ksÜgdjgu iqj l< yels njhs'

-úfYaI{ ffjoH isisr ,shkf.a - wOHlaI - ,sx.dY%s; frda. u¾ok tallh-

අසාමාන්‍ය ලිංගික ආශාව ඇතිවන්නේ මෙන්න මේ හේතුන් නිසයි

widudkH ,sx.sl wdYdj we;sjkafka fukak fï fya;=ka ksihs

fuu ;;a;ajh Sexual drive tfia;a ke;akï Libido f,iskao ye¢kafõ' ,sx.sl wdYdj hkq ,sx.sl l%shdj,sfha fh§u i|yd mqoa.,fhl=f.a we;s leue;a;ls' fuh iajhx úkaokh" úreoaO ,sx.sl fiajkh yd iu ,sx.sl fiajkh f,i fldgia lsysmhlg j¾. l< yels fõ'

fuys§ nyq, jYfhka olakg ,efnkafka úreoaO ,sx.sl fiajkhhs' óg idfmalaIj iu ,sx.sl fukau iajhx úkaokh hk ;;a;aj o wvq jeä jYfhka iudcfha olakg ,efí' ,sx.sl wdYdj hkq jerÈ fyda krl ld¾hhla fkdfõ'
  

th ñksidf.a wfkl=;a wjYH;d yd iudku ;j;a tla wjYH;djls' ñksid wfkl=;a i;a;ajhkaf.ka fjkia jkafka hï úkhla we;sj fuu wdYdj ika;¾mkh lr .ekSu ksihs' kuq;a ,sx.sl wdYdfõ iSudj fu;rï hehs m%ldY lsÍu ;rula wmyiq lreKla'

kuq;a tÈfkod Ôú;fha§ hqj<la w;r ;sfnk iïnkaO;djla ms<sn| i,ld ne,Sfï§ wfkla mqoa.,hdg lrorhla fkdjk whqßka iïnkaO;dj mj;ajdf.k hdu b;d jeo.;a' hï mqoa.,fhl=g wêl f,i ,sx.sl wdYdj ;sfnkjd kï ;udf.a iylrejd fyda iyldßh iuÛ ks;r ks;r ,sx.slj yeisfrkjd kï ^iylrejdg fyda iyldßhg lrorhla jk whqßka& hï .egÆjla we;s nj bka woyia fõ'

,sx.sl wdYdj idudkH mßÈ mj;ajdf.k hdug n,mdk lreKq fudkjd o@

fuh m%Odk fldgia ;=kla hgf;a l;dny l< yels fõ' tajd ffcj úoHd;aul idOl" fm!oa.,sl idOl" iudcuh yd wd.ñl idOl f,i fjkalr oelaúh yelshs' fï hgf;a uQ,slj ffcj úoHd;aul idOl ms<sn| úuid n,kjd kï ,sx.sl wdYdjg n,mdk fyda¾fudak j¾. lSmhla y÷kdf.k ;sfí'

ta w;=ßka jeo.;au jkafka fgiagiafgfrdaka keue;s fyda¾fudakhhs' fuu fyda¾fudak m%udKh wêl ùfuka ,sx.sl wdYdj idudkH uÜgu blaujd hd yelshs' ta jdf.au ldka;djlf.a kï Tima pl%h wkqj ,sx.sl wdYdfõ wvq jeä ùula oel.; yels fõ'

iajNdúlju ldka;djlf.a ,sx.sl wdYdfõ Wmßuh jkafka äïn fudapk wjÈhhs' ta jf.au w¾;jyrKfha§;a idudkHfhka ,sx.sl wdYdfõ wvqjla oel.; yels fõ' kuq;a iq¿ msßilf.a muKla ,sx.sl wdYdj wêl úh yelshs'

fojeks lreK jkafka fm!oa.,sl idOl hkakhs' tys§ wod< mqoa.,hdf.a mjq,a Ôú;fha .egÆ" udkisl wd;;sh" udkisl miqnEu yd l,lsÍu" udkisl wmyiq;d" orejka yd ióm;uhkaf.a .egÆ ksid ,sx.sl wdYdj idudkHfhka wvq ùula olakg ,efí' kuq;a we;eï whf.a by; lreKq ksidu ,sx.sl wiykh by< hdula we;súh yelshs'

f;jk lreK jkafka iudcuh yd wd.ñl idOlhs' fuys§ we;eï iudc lKavdhï ,sx.sl l%shdj,shg hï hï ;yxÑ ndOd mekúh yelshs' we;eï úg wd.ñl yd iudÔh miqìu u.ska mqoa.,fhl=f.a ,sx.sl wdYdj md,kh lrkq ,efí'

fud<fha we;sjk hï hï .egÆldÍ ;;a;aj wêl ,sx.sl wdYdjg fya;=jla o@

fud<fha yg .kakd úúO .egÆ ridhksl wdndO yd úúO frda. ;;a;aj ksid mqoa.,hd ;=< wêl ,sx.sl wdYdj j¾Okh úh yelshs' tys§ fïkshdj ^Mania& jeks frda. ;;a;aj uQ,slj y÷kd.; yels fõ'

fuys§ we;sjk widudkH ,sx.sl wdYdj ksid kd÷kk wh iu.Û mjd ,sx.slj iïnkaO;d meje;aúh yelshs' fuu frda. ,laIKj,g wu;rj l:dj jeäùu" wdfõ.YS,S ùu" mdkaor mjd wjÈ ù wêl%shdldß ùu" kskao fkdhdu" wêl fldamh" fjkodg jvd m%dKj;a iajNdjhla YÍrhg oekSu wd§ ,laIK oel.; yelshs' fuh ia;%S mqreI fomlaIgu fmdÿfõ we;sjk ;;a;ajhls'

äfukaIshd hkq iakdhq ffi, laIh ùfï frda. ;;a;ajhls'

fuh udkisl úlaIsma;h f,iska o y÷kajkq ,efí' fuh idudkHfhka jhi wjqreÿ 65ka miqj oel.; yels frda.S ;;a;ajhls' kuq;a Bg fmr jhiaj,§ o fujeks frda.Ska oel.; yels fõ' fuys§ fud<fha bÈß uia;sIalfha iakdhq laIhùu yd iakdhqj,g ydksùu ksid ;ek fkd;ek n,d ,sx.sl lghq;=j, fh§u" wka wh bÈßfha iajhx úkaokfha fh§u" ,eÊcdjlska f;drj ldka;djka w;m; .Eu yd Tjqkag wkjYH fhdackd lsÍu jeks p¾hdjka fujeks mqoa.,fhl=f.ka oel.; yels fõ' jhia.; mqoa.,fhl= fujeks widudkH yeisÍulska hq;= ùu fyda oeä ,sx.sl wdYdjlska fmf<hs kï Tyq fyda wehg fkdmudj ffjoH m%;sldr ,ndÈh hq;= fõ'

ta jf.au yÈis wk;=re ksid fud<hg isÿjk wk;=re j,ska miqj we;eï mqoa.,hkaf.a ,sx.sl wdYdj by< hd yelshs' idudkHfhka mqoa.,fhl=g m%isoaêfha ,sx.sl lghq;=j, fh§u .egÆldÍ jqjo fujeks mqoa.,hkaf.a ,eÊcdj ìh ke;s ù hhs' Tjqka tjeks wjia:djl§ ;ek fkd;ek fkdn,d ,sx.sl lghq;=j, fhÈh yelshs'

;jo ukao udkisl;ajfhka ^Mental Retardation& miqjk whg fujeks frda.S wjia:djka we;súh yelshs'

óg wu;rj l,d;=rlska we;sjk frda. wjia:djka f,i ldka;djkaf.a wêl ,sx.sl wdYdj frda.hla uÜgug jeä fjñka mj;skjd kï th Nymphomania f,iska ye¢kafõ' msßñkaf.a fuu ;;a;ajh Satyriasis f,iska ye¢kafõ'

óg wu;rj we;eï u;ao%jH ksido ,sx.sl wdYdj wêl úh yelshs' iuyr wjia:dj, u;ameka ksido ,sx.sl wdYdj j¾Okh úh yelshs'

ta jf.au ldu wdYdjka Woa§mkh jk iudc jgmsgdjla ;sfnkjd kï ,sx.sl lghq;= ms<sn| tu iudch újD; fukau ,sys,a wdl,am orkjd kï mjqf,a whf.a ,sx.sl yeisÍï ks;r olakg ,efí kï wka;¾cd,h" Ñ;%mg yd ks,a ùäfhda o¾Yk ks;r olskakg ,efí kï yd iqÿiq ld,fha§ iqÿiq ,sx.sl wOHdmkhla fkdue;s lu;a wêl ,sx.sl wYdjkag uÛmdokq ,efí'